I have been having such an expansive, joyfilled, interesting time over the past few weeks with travelling through Europe and the UK, playing, communing with family and friends, gifting classes ( I co-hosted the new Foundation, level 1 with Gary in Roma) , conscious conversations and taking time out fro my regular schedule to expand my living with Thalia! How did I get to be so lucky?
Our True Nature is Essence. Most of the time we are entranced by our personality and do not remember our Essential nature.
I’m sure you’re aware of the power of choice and the power of the mind. It reminds me of a great quote “The mind is a dangerous thing, waste it! “I’m a huge believer in creating change and expansion whenever possible, by knowing that choice trumps clearing every time!
It is ALSO really important to pay equally close attention to the language that you use throughout your day.
You see, the fact is that your language is the physical actualization of your thoughts.
You can spend all the time in the world thinking positively…
But if you’re not also making a conscious choice to reflect your intentions in your language, it’s a bit like going to the gym to “try” and lose weight while still eating all of the junk food you like and having no regard for what your physical body is requiring and desiring.
This means, chances are that you’re not going to see maximum benefits in your life 😉
If you want to live your life to your greatest, most generative, phenomenal potential
and have the power to turn your goals into your living, breathing reality…
You’ll see faster results if you make the demand to be more mindful of the words that you use when speaking to yourself and to others.
To help you do this, here are 2 words or phrases that I recommend you eliminate from your
vocabulary as much as possible:
1) Eliminate the words “I can’t.”
“I can’t” are some of the most self-limiting words you can use.
There’s a great quote by Henry Ford that explains why:“Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.”
What you say, you will experience. Your words are your thoughts in motion, and they shape the reality around you. So when you use the words “I can’t,” guess what? You will manifest a situation in which you can’t do something!
Best-selling author Jack Canfield does an experiment at his live events that proves this.
He gets volunteers from the audience to stand up and extend their arms to either side. Then, Jack tells the volunteers to think either “I can” or “I can’t.”
When he tries to push down the arms of the people who think “I can,” their arms don’t budge. Almost like they were made of concrete!
But when he tries to push down the arms of the people who think “I can’t,” he’s able to push their arms like a knife through butter.
So if that’s what’s possible just by THINKING “I can” or “I can’t,” imagine what you physically actualize by verbally speaking those words!
You will instantly solidify in your body, your life and your reality what you think about and what you speak about. So if you find yourself saying “I can’t,” the Universe will deliver up situations to you in which you find you can’t do something.
2) Eliminate the words “I don’t know.”
This is a phrase that A LOT of people use throughout the day.have you noticed that when you say this repeatedly and you’ll continuously create situations where you find yourself unable to move from point A to point B because you just don’t know, or you draw a blank, or you just can’t change what ever it is you have judged as a wrongness, a still point where you stop creating what you desire and more of what you don’t want.
If you find yourself saying either “I can’t” or “I don’t know,” what if you stop yourself and ask a question or rephrasing what you’ve just said?
So for example, if you catch yourself saying “I can’t make it to the gym today because I’m too busy,” what if you asked a question instead like ” hey body, would it be a kindness and a contribution for us to go work out at gym ? or “reframe that statement by saying instead:
“How much fun can me and my body have at gym? I’m really looking forward to giving it my all tomorrow!”
If you find yourself saying “I don’t know,” which is a decision, conclusion and a judgement, what if you change your point of view and ask a question like what would it take for me to ( fill in the blank)? or ask what do I know that I am pretending not to know that if I knew it would change this with total ease ?
Your words are immensely powerful, so what if you use your languaging and self talk for you, rather than against you to create anything ?
So what if just for today you ask what else is possible and eliminate any self abasing words from your self talk and dialogue and see what else shows up. Remember your first line of communication has always been energy – it is not the words.
I dare you to have fun becoming aware of what words you habitually use that lock up and limit you by looking them up in the pre 1945 Webster dictionary. I have included a link here: http://machaut.uchicago.edu/websters
It is the last dictionary that was printed where the energy of the words matches. These days we use words that we think mean one thing and actually are the opposite – for example need is a lack. So often in my money classes when I ask people to repeat ” I don’t NEED money” ten times, they start to smile and lighten up. Insane as it may seem, I point out that the truth is that they don’t actually lack money!! To watch the lights go on, the ah ha moment, that the class participants is the defining moment that never ceases to get me excited. They become more aware of the words they use and that in itself is the simplicity and ease that can change your life dynamically too.
I’m also doing an impromptu Foundation and Level 1 starting early July in Joburg fresh off the Rome updates, as co facilitator In the POD UK classes with Gary Douglas!! If you or anyone you know is still interested, please let me know.
Have you been curious about Access Consciousness?
Is NOW the time to check it out?
I’ve been facilitating 5 DAYS to CHANGE YOUR LIFE in the UK, and across Africa because these tools and reminders to know that you know DO change lives – my own story is beyond what I could ever have imagined possible which I the reason I LOVE to gift it forward!
d about coming to animal lovers and solo-preneurs and more!!!